Sensual Massage

Before you dig into this sensual, erotic massage, make sure to follow some steps and check whether you have everything.

Some things you would need are candles, romantic music, clean towels/flat sheet and some massaging oil.

Now, that you have everything, take note of the following to create a more sensual atmosphere.

1. You do not want any noise, so keep the door locked and turn off any electronic device you may have.
2. Prepare the massage table or bed, which ever it is.
3. Make sure that if you are working on a bed, to cover the bed completely with cloth, so that the oil does not stain your sheets.
4. Keep clean water, in case of the need.
5. Set the atmosphere with decent lighting. Turn off your lights, and light those candles.
6. Have a decent smell to the area, maybe scented candles would nice here. Play some nice music.
7. Make sure that both you and your partner have taken a full shower and make sure to shave and keep your nails in a decent condition.

Your Massage

To better connect, ask your partner what they are expecting from massage, and work from the ideas. Make them happy, and talk, but with a soft and tender voice. The initial process is to generate this connection between each other. Start with gentle strokes along the body. You may want kiss them lightly and give a light tease. When your partner is on their front, start by stroking the body, with your fingertips. Beginning with their back and then flowing right up to the shoulders, arms and back down to the thigh region works best. Perform some very light teasing, until you know they are relaxed, if not sure, just ask them gently.

1. Use a small amount of oil and rub it in between both hands, and oil up the partners back. Massage the back with deep strokes, that should be held long.
2. If the partner feels uneasy, ask them if it is too soft or hard.
3. Incorporate your weight in the massage, instead of just using your hands. Avoid the tensity to lean over the table.
4. Complete the full back side of the body before you move on anywhere else.
5. Now for the flip, start from the top, near the neck and right down. If your massaging a women, pay close attention to the breast area. Don’t be too into it, nor ignore it. Provide some light strokes on the nips and the breast.
6. Glide down, and work on the legs. On your way down, just for mere seconds give teases on the genitals. Some strokes on the inner thigh region gives a more relaxation feel.
7. Just allow the sexual energy to build up, and once you feel they are ready provide some exotic massaging.

Massage For The Genital Region

Eye contact is very important during this step. Give them eye contact while you touch their genitals. Some teasing should be done with the other hand around the body.

For The Female

Begin by touching the exterior vulva region by slowly flowing to the clitoris. It should end with some internal stimulation. If the partner is okay with the use of a vibrator, you may as well do that too.

For The Male

You should begin by taking some lubricant in your hands and rubbing them gently around your palms. Sandwich your hands around the penis. Gentle small stokes should be done in a up/down motion. Make sure to ask your partner to let you know if he is going to ejaculate. Sometimes, it is inevitable, so you should be aware as well.

The Big Finish

After the massage concludes, and you are both calm and relaxed, just spend some quality time together. What you have just experienced is something special, and just extend the moment. Affection is increased by the touch, hold each others hands and talk.

Some Quality Information

1. After the massage, take a sensual bath together. A wonderful spa or bubble bath would be very romantic and it would bring in the tone.
2. Be very open on both sides of the table, and give what your partner desires and deserves(*).
3. Set the aroma in the room, with scents, candles and lighting.
4. Music plays a relaxation tone.
5. The location should be kept very clean.
6. Clothing? Less is best. Wear something loose and light. Avoid dark colors. A robe is perfect. No robe is complete  perfection.